How to make a change?
The fact detached from our hearts has a slight impact, if you want to bring the change in people, you need to appeal to their hearts,not their heads, an appeal to values, attitudes, and feelings that can motivate people toward making a change.
I like Mahtama Gandhi saying, "the difference between what we are doing and what we are capable of doing would solve most of the world's problem."
The question is, "how we change people who don't want to change?' I believe we shouldn't lecture people; we should give them a safe environment, and instead of arguing, we question them to help them explore the motivations in their own space.
the second question is," why we don't do what we should do, what we capable of doing, and solve our problem?"
This question makes me think of our basic life because you can see this sometimes in your kids, student, husband, yourself!.
The explanation for this that we are human beings. We are fantastic! Worm-blood creature! Our mind, our dynamic system, is influenced by our changing perception and desire. We are not machines that make decisions based on facts. We're feeling creatures.
"Information doesn't move us; desire moves us !"
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